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Google Inbox Adds Trip Bundles, Undo Send

And the email app no longer requires an invitation.
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Google announced a host of augmentations to the seven-month-old Inbox app today at I/O, its annual developer conference. Among them: Making the product available to everyone and adding new trip-related bundles.
To its Bundle feature, which groups together related emails, Inbox adds Trip Bundles, which gather all of the email related to a trip. According to Google, all of the particulars about a trip—think flight times—will pop up the moment a user opens Inbox. That's potentially bad news for TripIt, a mobile app that organizes trip information.
It will look like this:
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Inbox is also adding an email retraction function called Undo Send, which allows users to "take back" an email in the moments immediately after sending it. In addition, Inbox users will now have the ability to swipe to delete email.
Finally, <a href="http://www.google.com/inbox/">Inbox</a>, which had been invitation-only, is now available for everyone.
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9 Important Sex Secrets Women Really Want You To Know

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According to Ali Adler’s How to F*ck A Woman.
<h1>TV writer/producer/author Ali Adler spent years working with straight men in various writer's rooms. As a gay woman, she was able to give them unique insight on female sexuality and decided to publish a book with some of her advice:</h1>
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<h1>“Here is the most important Vagina Golden Rule. Do not do unto it as you would have done unto you. Everything about you is very different from a woman.”</h1>
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<h1>“Gentle to slightly rougher, never too rough -- unless she passionately screams at you to do otherwise -- that’s the build. In all of this. The whole thing."</h1>
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Can You Actually Get Through Disneyland In 24 Hours?

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Disneyland. Twenty-four hours. One mission: Find my sense of adventure.
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As a 26-year-old man, I can honestly say I've lost my sense of adventure. I'm a shell of a man with the emotional range of a dusty sheet of Xerox paper. Long gone are the days of awe and wonder...
One day, I rummaged through a broken toy bank my parents bought me when I was a kid. In it, I kept a list of things I wanted to do before I die — a list I wrote when I was about 8. There was one particular item on the list that kept drawing my attention:
"Go to my happy place. Ride every single ride at Disneyland."
As luck would have it, Disneyland was celebrating its 60th anniversary by keeping the park open for 24 hours. If I could get this one thing done from my childhood days, maybe I could gain back some of that childhood spunk I used to have. Maybe I could find my sense of adventure.
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My girlfriend Aly was there to provide coffee and moral support, as well as photographic evidence of my "magical" journey. We used a Park Hopper pass to get into the parks.
At exactly 6 on the dot, fireworks went off to signify the opening of both parks. And so the clock started ticking...
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Disneyland. Twenty-four hours. One mission: Find my sense of adventure. Charlotte Gomez for BuzzFeed As a 26-year-old man, I can honestly say I've lost my sense of adventure. I'm a shell of a man with the emotional range of a dusty sheet of Xerox pap…

17 Fun Games To Play If You're Short

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You may be little, but you can dream BIG.
<h1>Use a green screen to make a movie in which you are the tallest one.</h1>
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<h1>Take photos from a low angle and straighten your back so that you look like The Supreme Ruler of Everything.</h1>
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<h1>Practice getting SERIOUS height on your jumps, and then put that practice into action!</h1>
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<h1>Pretend like you're a bat that turns into a vampire, so when the light hits you, you turn to stone.</h1>
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You may be little, but you can dream BIG. Use a green screen to make a movie in which you are the tallest one. instagram.com Take photos from a low angle and straighten your back so that you look like The Supreme Ruler of Everything. instagram.com Pr…

Can You Remember The First Chapter Of "Harry Potter And The Philosopher's Stone"?

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“Mr and Mrs Dursley of number four Privet Drive…” …

The 9 Painful Stages Of Realizing You Live In A "White Person Bubble"

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I understand that I don’t understand.
<h1>Stage one: Unconscious enjoyment.</h1>
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"I love everybody, and everybody loves everybody! To be honest, I don’t really think about race that much, since it doesn’t really affect me."
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<h1>Stage one can last anywhere from a few years to a lifetime.</h1>
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"I'm not personally racist, and neither are my friends. We're good people and we know racism is bad."
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<h1>Stage two: Someone or something you see in the media tries to point out that you may be in a "white person bubble."</h1>
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<h1>Stage three: Knee-jerk reactive anger.</h1>
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"I UNDERSTAND struggle. I've had enormous hardships too!"
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Joe Manganiello Covers "DETAILS''

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The 5 Steps Of Deciding To Be Brave

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Let this baby lemur be your light.
<h1>Stage 1: Acknowledge the giant hurdle or problem in front of you.</h1>
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In this instance, being very small and needing to jump a great distance.
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<h1>Step 2: Accept the fact that you're going to have to do this.</h1>
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<h1>Step 3: Weigh out all your options. You don't want to make the wrong choice here.</h1>
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<h1>Step 4: Second-guess your choices while simultaneously wanting to go with your gut.</h1>
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Inside The Minds, And Offices, Of 15 Psychotherapists

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Sebastian Zimmermann is a photographer and psychotherapist based in New York and spent 13 years years producing <a href="http://www.fiftyshrinks.com/">Fifty Shrinks.</a>
"After a few photographic sessions, I understood that, for a more fully realized portrait, I would also need to include the many fascinating conversations I had with the psychotherapists ... These are private offices that people don’t generally see.” –Sebastian Zimmermann
<h1>Martin Bergmann</h1>
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"I have been an analyst for more than fifty years and I still find it astounding that every patient has something new to communicate. Sometimes I’ll encounter a patient who has so much to convey that it’s bewildering. It is as if an analyst is living not only his own life, but also the lives of countless other people. So I think I am making a bargain with death; I am cheating. I am living more than one life." –Martin Bergmann, Ph.D. 
 
<h1>Jamieson Webster</h1>
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“'I imagine a world in which we can change the scale of measurement, not asking what can be hoped for—always an object of calculation—but only ever asking, from where do you hope? Where do you fall down? We all are falling,' wrote Rilke in his poem Autumn, leaving us with a final question: 'Is there one whose gentle hands hold up all of this falling?' This is one of the most powerful questions addressed to psychoanalysts by their patients, as it was addressed to the priests before, in a time when the Creator was thought to hold all in these hands." –Jamieson Webster, Ph.D. 
<h1>Michael Eigen</h1>
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"There are patients who may start off picking bones with this or that part of my office and why it is that way and what it means about me. One said it was like being in her psychotic mother’s insides and she could not stay and work with me. Another found something wrong with the chair and felt if I could not care for a chair, how could I care for him? Sessions can be magical; mood is everything, transforming inner and outer surroundings. Feeling takes precedence and creates worlds of its own ... Many have a hunger for a special kind of contact. It may be our world is starved for it." –Michael Eigen, Ph.D.
<h1>Pamela Thorp</h1>
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"I have recently been using EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) as part of my treatment. EMDR theory holds that when a person suffers a trauma, the disturbing memories become trapped in isolated neural pathways of the brain with all the original imagery, beliefs, emotions, body sensations, and sensory stimuli." –Pamela Thorp, LCSW
 
<h1>Albert Ellis</h1>
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“We create the depression and anger we feel by demanding that the universe not be as rotten as it is. The reality is that the whole universe is not rotten nor is all of life rotten. Only certain elements of it are. Accept that along with many good things, bad things exist, change them if you can, and accept what you can’t change. Remember it’s your thoughts that create the way you feel. It’s practically never hopeless. Acceptance is the key.” –Albert Ellis, Ph.D.
<h1>Maria Taveras</h1>
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"Upon returning to New York from a visit to the Jung Institute of Zurich I had a series of dreams of a woman entwined with serpents that I interpreted as a portent of my need for self-transformation. This corresponds with Jung’s own interpretation of snakes as the harbingers of change. In one of my dreams, a voice commanded me to sculpt these images. I had never before made anything in clay but I listened to my unconscious and have continued to create art to this day. I keep several examples in my office of both my sculptures and paintings." –Maria Taveras, LSCW
 
<h1>Dr Otto F. Kernberg</h1>
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"I mostly treat patients with severe personality disorders where all the adaptations and social interactions of the individual are disturbed. The core symptom is called 'identity diffusion.' It refers to people’s inability to integrate their concept of self in relation to others." –Otto F. Kernberg, MD
<h1>Kirkland C. Vaughans</h1>
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"My taste is for African art that comes from my Afro-centric perspective. That’s a part of who I am. If a white analyst puts African art in her office, it is perceived as nothing more than good taste. When I choose to display African art, it is interpreted differently, more personally, as an aspect of my identity, which is also true. I can imagine that to some new black patients, their first reaction might be: 'I want to get out of here. This guy has his black self right up front and out there. I don’t want to deal with the black part of myself. I’d rather go to a white analyst.' In a way, I’m challenging those patients to respond. It opens the dialogue where I can say, 'Okay let’s see what we can do with that response,' and then the real therapeutic work can begin." –Kirkland C. Vaughans, Ph.D.
 
<h1>Dr Marsha Rosenberg</h1>
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"I have a reputation for being able to work with very difficult patients who are referred to me by other practitioners when they cannot handle them any longer. Some of these people are very angry individuals who are quite isolated from society. For example, I was seeing a highly intelligent but aggressively hostile woman who screamed at me every session and even threatened to spill her coffee on my sofa. When I asked her to lower her voice, she yelled, 'You are my psychiatrist. You need to let me scream at you. That’s what I am paying you for!' She had never realized that she scared off people—few had ever confronted her." –Marsha Rosenberg, MD
 
<h1>William L. Salton</h1>
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"I once evaluated a boy whose eyes lit up when he saw my castle ... He constructed a whole drama of what goes on in the grand hall versus what goes on up in the towers ... One of the knights had a drinking problem. In the grand hall, this knight was very, very careful to have just one goblet of wine ... You see, what goes on in the towers doesn’t represent the actual figures in the boy’s life; it corresponds to his fantasies. It isn’t real. Children who are traumatized don’t reenact these things word for word, scene for scene. They reenact them in the affect ... The child is the director and I’m the producer." –William L. Salton, Ph.D.
 
<h1>Donna Bassin</h1>
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"After the 9-11 attacks, I was called in to consult for the Mayor’s Office to assist moving the city on with mourning ... It was emotionally very overwhelming. One night, I had an extremely disturbing dream. I have a dollhouse in my office, and, the next day, I found myself doing play therapy in between patients. I was setting up, feeling very hopeless, and moving the furniture of the dollhouse around. Then, I brought in my pinhole camera and started taking 45-minute exposures ... I was making images, trying to cope with what I was feeling. It was self-treatment. There was a lot of talk after 9-11 about how therapists were going to deal with what they witnessed ... My art has always been my therapy." –Donna Bassin, Ph.D.
<h1>Dr Steven J. Lee</h1>
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"During my training, I had a depressed patient who had relapsed several times on cocaine. One of my supervisors told me that I couldn’t help him until he was serious about staying clean. But he failed to understand that this patient was already serious about staying clean. That’s why he had come in to tell me that he had started to use again. He needed more treatment, not dismissal. Seeing addiction as not so different from high blood pressure let me replace frustration with patience. And I’ve found that just like people with high blood pressure, addicts really do get better." –Steven J. Lee, MD
 
<h1>Abby Stein</h1>
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"The offender was a teenager who stalked, raped, and beat a 71-year-old woman to death with a hammer. He then proceeded to her living room, where he grabbed a snack and watched television. At some point, the teenager performed CPR on the victim and even dialed 911 but hung up before an emergency operator answered. The offender was caught because he had made no attempt to retrieve a medical appointment card that had tumbled out of his pocket during the crime. I don’t believe his case was one of a criminal’s bad luck. In my experience, there is more to the states of consciousness that attend violent crimes." –Abby Stein, Ph.D.
 
 
<h1>Albert J. Sbordone</h1>
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"When the boy is gay, the father picks up cues that his son is different from other boys. But the father will still probably try to engage him in his own traditional boy interests from when he was the same age. Often that’s not what the gay boy wants to do. They just don’t toss a football around usually. So the father can feel rejected, confused, perplexed, any number of things, and as a result moves away from the boy. The boy will notice that the father has an easier time with his brothers or other boys who are more like the father. The son begins to feel that something is wrong with him. A rift develops between father and son." –Albert J. Sbordone, MSW, Ph.D.
 
<h1>Dr Robert Porter</h1>
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"In 1943, I worked as an Army intern at Saint Elizabeths Hospital, a big warehouse, in Washington, DC. In those  days, we were still using insulin coma and electroshock  therapy. I also scrubbed for a few lobotomies. I was in the operating room lining up leucotomies, drilling burr holes in the skulls. It was a drastic procedure, but we  were faced with a lot of unremitting, terrible depression,  and we didn’t have any good medicines then. One time,  they brought Ezra Pound, the poet who was pro-Nazi.  They said he was crazy, but they wouldn’t touch him. He  was too famous." –Robert Porter, MD
 
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Read This Post If You're Bored At Google I/O But Need To Look Like You're Working

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A list of cute and funny pics that will make it look like you’re actually reading about a tech conference. You’re welcome.
Look. We understand you're supposed to be paying attention to the big Google I/O event, but it's boring there and you'd much rather be looking at a BuzzFeed list of animals or funny pics or something. But your boss is right next to you and you don't want anyone to see you're secretly looking at BuzzFeed lists.
Don't worry. We got you.
Click quickly to reveal each photo of a cute animal or funny photo, and scroll fast to the next one before anyone catches you. We'll make it LOOK like you're doing work.
<h1>The 2015 Google I/O should be one of the most exciting events of the year.</h1>
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Definitely more exciting than a kitten dressed up as Battlecat.
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<h1>The keynote presentation will probably be about Android.</h1>
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This guy is thinking his keynote is about slamming some cold brews and chilling because he's a dog in sunglasses and that's literally all dogs in sunglasses do.
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<h1>Developers and industry experts will be in attendance.</h1>
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Much like this gathering of shina ibus at dinner.
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The Pen 15 Challenge: 15 Vapes In 15 Hours

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What happens when you take three hits of 15 vape pens every hour on the hour for 15 hours? Madness.
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I been vapin', I been vapin'...
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For anyone living with a disapproving relative or spouse, or in a state that still considers cannabis possession a felony, the low-key high provided by a vape pen can be a godsend.
But I'm a grown lady, and I live with a pot-friendly friend in <a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=los+angeles+marijuana&es_sm=91&biw=1280&bih=741&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ei=WPVcVbvSJYrHogT7vYCICQ&ved=0CAgQ_AUoAw#imgrc=1fUN89eIrZujFM%253A%3B0-Bgvl6muDhUwM%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fcdn5.theweedblog.com%252Fwp-content%252Fuploads%252Flos-angeles-marijuana.jpg%3Bhttp%253A%252F%252Fwww.theweedblog.com%252Ffind-a-medical-marijuana-dispensary-collective-or-delivery-service-in-the-los-angeles-area%252F%3B300%3B300">a city</a> that gives no fucks about the skunky smell of burning marijuana wafting out my window. So I rarely vape. As the majority of pot smokers will tell you, vaping provides a junior varsity buzz, especially when it comes to devices that you load with actual buds.
Most marijuana vape pens are like Easy-Bake Ovens. You get one for your birthday and you're dying to have some friends over to show it off. The big day comes, and you push your raw material onto some janky heating element that reeks of the polluted air outside the Chinese factory where it was made. You wait for it to get hot, but soon realize this cheap coil is simply no match for the real thing. Shame! Irritation! Disappointment! Your cookie is a goopy mess of hot dough, and your weed is, at best, lightly toasted.
Hash oil vapes are stronger, and therefore a little easier for potheads like myself to get behind, but then you have to either accept whatever quality of oil comes in the pre-filled cartridges, or deal with the sticky mess of loading your own. Now that I know most hash oil contains <a href="http://www.buzzfeed.com/amandachicagolewis/is-hash-oil-safe">pesticides, plant waxes, residual butane, and neurotoxins from the nonbutane contents of lighter fluid</a>, I try to be a bit more discerning about what I let into my body.
But for the sake of science, and in the spirit of optimism, I decided to give a variety of pens a try and share the results. So without further ado, here is an account of the Monday when, for my totally real and professional job, I tried 15 vape pens in 15 hours.
The Pen 15 Challenge, if you will.
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There's Now Endless Sun In Northern Canada And It's Quite Beautiful

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It’s midnight, who wants to play baseball?
<h1>Inuvik is a town of just over 3,000 people in the Northwest Territories of Canada. It's situated two degrees above the Arctic Circle.</h1>
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<h1>This time of year brings the reverse: the Midnight Sun. Inuvik and other parts of the Northwest Territories, Yukon and Nunavut are enjoying days and nights without darkness. Inuvik will have 56 consecutive days of sunlight.</h1>
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15 Tips That Will Trick Your House Guests Into Thinking You Have Your Shit Together

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So, you eat cereal for dinner and can barely cook an egg. No else needs to know that.
<h1>Put a bunch of shit in jars</h1>
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You know when you buy rice, pasta or grains, they come in perfectly good plastic packaging? Well throw them out, pour the contents into big jars and put them on display. This shows that you are a good homemaker with a sense of rustic, country charm.
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<h1>Put some big bottles of mineral water in the fridge</h1>
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Your guests don't need to know that you usually drink water out of the kitchen tap. If you really want to wow them, when you give them a glass of water, just give them the sparkling stuff without even mentioning it. They'll think you drink fancy water ALL THE TIME.
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<h1>Clean your bathroom</h1>
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That's right. I said it. Don't look at me like that. At the very least, squirt some bleach in the toilet, wipe down the mirror and make your sink taps shiny. Admit it, the bathroom was overdue for a clean anyway.
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<h1>Hide your disgusting toothbrush</h1>
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When guests come over, it is opposite day for the bathroom. Take all the stuff you actually use off the vanity and chuck it in the cupboard. Then take all the stuff you never use out of the cupboard and display them. Most of these things will be gifts from people who don't know you that well or miniature hand creams you've swiped from hotels. Now's their time to shine.
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Can We Guess When You Lost Your Virginity Based On Your Music Preferences?

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22 Moments That Will Give You Intense MSN Messenger Flashbacks

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Flying Tiger Is The Cheap & Stylish Home Goods Store Of Your Dreams

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And it’s now open in the United States!
<h1>If IKEA and the dollar store had a baby... and Crate & Barrel and Party City were its crazy aunts... you'd have something close to the Danish store Flying Tiger.</h1>
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<h1>Flying Tiger, which was founded in Copenhagen in 1995, has locations all over the world... and its first store in the United States opened in NYC last week.</h1>
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<h1>Located at 920 Broadway, the newest Flying Tiger location is filled with items that are incredibly adorable, clever, and/or useful.</h1>
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And everything is SUPER cheap.
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<h1>Some of the BuzzFeed Life editors checked out the goods at Flying Tiger earlier this month... and emerged a dozen or so dollars in debt and unable to stop talking about their amazing purchases.</h1>
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Full disclosure: we were allowed choose 10 items for free at the press preview... but most of us still bought several more items with our own money because leaving there with just 10 things was impossible.
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